People I want working for me

So I was thinking about who I want working for me. Or maybe who I want to work closely with. Those would be people who have experienced pain, trials, rough times, major disappointments, setbacks, losses, etc. I want people who have have chosen to move on, to use the pain, to move past that pain, not in some "look at me" sort of way, but in a way where yes, that pain still might exist, yes that loss still hurts, but I am moving on. I just love that perspective. I want to work with people who know this world is a tough world, but choose to lead with their heart.